Our Guiding Principles

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Participants of our workshop “Exploring Strategies for Healing A Wounded Community”, Georgetown University, November 2017

Authenticity

We are committed to cultivating a deliberate and protected space in which contributors feel safe, supported, nurtured, and celebrated in sharing narratives on their own terms. We do not, in any capacity, uphold expectations rooted in respectability politics, nor do we tolerate forms of policing that reproduce harm within our communities. This space exists to honor unapologetic presence, where contributors are invited to arrive fully in the embodiment of their truths.

Radical Compassion

As women and femmes of color of all genders who are subject to intersecting forms of institutional, emotional, psychological, and interpersonal violence—violence rooted in falsehoods that insist upon our disposability—we affirm the necessity of centering love and compassion within our movements. We begin from the premise that all of us are inherently worthy of care and tenderness. Accordingly, we practice radical compassion, fierce gentleness, deliberate softness, and affirming presence in the stewardship of this platform.

Collectivity

Our liberation is inextricably bound to one another. We share lived realities shaped by overlapping structures of violence, and we understand collective care as an essential practice of resistance. To heal together is not ancillary to liberation; it is one of its primary conditions. We commit to engaging the work of repair, restoration, and relational accountability as shared labor.

Accountability

We do not coddle privilege, guilt, or appeals to intent divorced from impact. Instead, we foster rigorous and compassionate practices of accountability, growth, and ethical becoming. Grounded in a transformative justice framework, we trust in our community’s capacity to challenge and support one another as an expression of care, not punishment, in service of collective liberation and community restoration.

Intersectionality

We reject superficial invocations of intersectionality that fail to inform practice. Intersectionality is not an addendum to our work; it is a foundational orientation. Our community-building frameworks begin by honoring the complex, overlapping conditions that shape lived experience, ensuring that our commitments remain critically engaged, anti-oppressive, and accountable.

Decolonization

We are committed to actively disrupting and interrogating white supremacist, Western, colonial, and heteropatriarchal paradigms of health, knowledge, and being. Our work seeks to re-center the lived experiences and epistemologies of women and femme people of color, including trans, gender non-conforming, queer, working-class, immigrant, sick, chronically ill, and disabled communities, as well as those situated within the so-called Third World. Decolonization, for us, is an ongoing practice rather than a metaphor.

We Must Dream Big

Within a sociopolitical landscape that relentlessly seeks to erode our humanity and foreclose our futures, we recognize how sustained violence fractures imagination and diminishes creative capacity. To dream expansively is therefore an act of refusal. We hold dreaming as a disciplined and necessary practice—one that resists erasure and asserts our right to futurity. Our collective healing is only as tangible as the visions we permit ourselves to imagine, and we affirm imagination and audacity as tools of survival and defense against the psychological and emotional warfare waged on our freedom.

We Are Oceanic

We honor, affirm, and celebrate the brilliance of our community. We remain committed to expansive, multidimensional ways of being that exceed containment and simplification. Your full humanity—complex, evolving, and sovereign—is welcome here.

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  2. you are LITERALLY doing a world of good. 🙂

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  3. Sophia Armen's avatar Sophia Armen says:

    Wow this is soooo beautiful!!!

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